Mediating your divorce can simplify the process and reduce stress for couples who are well-suited to collaborate within the mediation framework. In mediation, you and your spouse are in charge of the outcome. Both parties must communicate in good faith, with transparency, and be willing to work through issues to find reasonable compromises.
Divorce mediation involves several joint meetings where both parties speak together with the mediator who acts as a neutral facilitator. The meetings allow you the chance to talk in depth about how financial matters and property distribution should be handled, the priorities regarding how your children will be raised, how responsibilities and time will be allocated among each parent, and how future issues will be addressed.
The process is a more amicable option than divorce litigation and can foster a good co-parenting relationship moving forward. Both parties must communicate in good faith with transparency and be willing to work through issues to find reasonable compromises.
The benefits of mediating divorce include:
- The process is efficient and effective
- You are given more control over the divorce agreement and settlement process
- There is more flexibility in determining child custody and parenting schedules
- The process is more confidential and private
- You focus on finding solutions and compromises together
- You get personal attention and your voice is heard
- The children are more shielded from the conflict
- Good communication is fostered and sets the stage for effective co-parenting
Mediation isn’t the right option for everyone, but if you and your spouse are willing and able to work together and share the same goals for your family, it could be just the process you and your family need to get through this difficult time.